How to Meet the Neighbors

Best ways to break the ice when meeting new neighbors

Getting to know people after moving to a new state is often the first step in making a town feel like a community. Neighbors can be valuable resources for information about the city and could become lifelong friends.  

Whether you’re a social butterfly or a (library) card-carrying introvert, these tips can help you easily meet people in the neighborhood. 

How to get to know your neighbors: 10 tips for success 

If you’ve just moved into a new home or want to welcome someone else to the neighborhood, try one or more of these tips to get started: 

1. Introduce yourself

Sometimes, the direct approach is best. Approach folks while they’re outside to say hello. Another option is to knock on their door and offer to exchange contact info. Just avoid overstaying your welcome! There will be time to visit later.

2. Send a note

If you’re shy or prefer a low-key greeting, leave a note when no one is home. Include your contact information and fun facts about your family or the town.

3. Drop off a gift

Give a small item like baked goods, a candle or a houseplant to new neighbors. Hand the gift directly to them or leave it with a card if they’re not home.

4. Join a local group or online community

Join the HOA, neighborhood watch or a local Facebook group. If there isn’t a group, consider starting one and inviting others.  

• Attend community events or hang out in common areas to meet new people. 
• Volunteer to serve on committees or take a watch shift. 

5. Host a housewarming party

Invite your neighbors to a housewarming party (or offer to host one for them). The party can be as relaxed or elaborate as you like; just make sure there are plenty of opportunities for good conversation!

6. Ask for advice

Seek recommendations about the best restaurants, service providers or things to do in town. Most people enjoy offering opinions and being helpful.

7. Offer help

If you see someone struggling with yardwork or unloading things from their car, lend your muscles to help! You could also offer to collect mail or water plants during vacations or work trips. Be sure to accept help, too, since trading favors can be a good experience for everyone.

8. Give a compliment

Offer a genuine compliment to start a conversation. If you see someone walking their dog, tell them how pretty or well-behaved their pooch is. Praise a gorgeous garden or colorful porch décor. 

9. Follow the neighborhood rules

You don’t want your first encounter with people to be because of a problem. Be a good neighbor by following HOA regulations or rules about noise, pets and tidiness. For example, make sure you know the pickup days for trash and recycling to avoid leaving bins out too long. 

10. Be patient

New friendships can take time, so don’t rush or force a relationship. Be friendly and approachable.

Adjust to your move, new neighbors and all

Meeting others is only one part of adjusting to a new place, and the moving experts at U-Pack® have you covered even after the move. Learn more about making your home cozy with budget decorating tips and quick curb appeal projects. 

After you try one of these tips, come back and let us know how it went in the comments!